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| bridesmaids choosing tips |
1. One of my bridesmaids just found out she is pregnant. She'll be seven months along at my wedding. Should I worry about finding another dress for her, or should she figure something out?
If the bridesmaids' dress you selected can be adapted for your pregnant pal, go for it. If that's too hard, how about having her wear a maternity dress in the same color, or a close approximation? If you insist on approving the dress beforehand, you can make this a fun project for the two of you.
2. One of my bridesmaids doesn't seem enthusiastic about my wedding. Should I ask her to quit the party?
No. This is your wedding, not a political primary. And besides, once you've asked someone to be an attendant, you can't un-ask her. Consider why your friend isn't jumping for joy regarding your wedding. Is she busy with school? Working long hours? Raising a family? Even though the wedding is likely the most important thing in your life right now, it's probably not in hers. So get a little perspective. If being busy isn't the reason for her aloofness, could she be jealous?
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| bridesmaids in blue short dress |
3. I have one too many bridesmaids. How can I work the extra friend into my wedding?
There's no bridal law that says you have to have an equal number of male and female attendants. Single attendants of either sex can walk up and down the aisle alone or in pairs, or a groomsman can accompany two women, one on each arm. As for the first dance, it's optional to have the entire wedding party pair off to join you and your husband for a spin. If you do want everyone on the dance floor, your solo maid can dance with her date or with another honored guest-your grandfather, a family friend or a favorite uncle.
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| junior bridesmaids |
4. What should my junior bridesmaid wear?
Junior bridesmaids usually wear an age-appropriate version of the bridesmaids' gown-which means no low-cut necklines or high slits. If the big girls are going strapless, your junior bridesmaid could sport capped sleeves. If they're wearing slinky slip dresses, put her in an A-line dress style with skinny straps.
5. Should the color of my bridesmaids' dresses be season-appropriate?
Unfortunately, too many people fall prey to the idea that there's only one "proper" way to do a wedding and you'll be laughed at if you don't serve the right meal and wear the right color. But that's just not the case. Your bridesmaids can wear any color you love, no matter what the season. They should, however, stick to materials that are appropriate for the weather. While some fabrics transcend season or climate, others might look wrong next to the clothes the guests wear. Flimsy chiffon in December would seem odd among the wool coats of Minnesota but would be perfect in balmy southern Florida. And heavy velvet in July is downright - an pretty much everywhere. So go on and pick your favorite shade, whether it's ice blue or hot pink and find a great dress in that hue.
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